Bachelorette Clare, Falling in Love Too Fast?

 

So as I’ve stated before I’ve barely been watching The Bachelorette, but Clare just sent someone home because he didn’t know anything about her the very first day. What, are they supposed to google her? Sure, they had the time with corona but what about the romance? He said she was beautiful and wanted to get to know her better and she took that as the worst insult ever. She was upset he wasn't fawning over her. That’s like googling a blind date before meeting them. It definitely could work out, but relationships form with chemistry and time. Why would you want someone who just cyber stalked you and all of a sudden know your sisters 3rd grade dog? That would look crazy and psychotic....Like why are you so obsessed with me? But in the bachelor world, I guess everyone should be madly in love with everyone. This is just very much inline with what others have said about being the lead bachelor or bachelorette, where they at the same time, want this huge serendipitous experience with love at first sight and just a fairy tale story, but also want every man or woman to be crazy about them from the get go.

Like there must be some insecurity in the beginning, about finding someone they fall in love enough to get engaged or what not. Right now actually it almost seems like they are strictly putting the men against each other with competition with the dodgeball and rewarding those who break the rules and such. They spin cycle it about competing for Clare's heart, but its strip dodgeball.  Clare allegedly actually has talked to some guys through DMs before the filming but on TV acts like they are just meeting for the first time like Dale, the supposed super crush for Clare Crawley. Todays episode was just super awkward and uncomfortable to watch....just from her talking to and meeting the guys and all...

This just reminds me that no matter how old or young the people are in front of TV and on reality shows, they all are the same. Clares montra this season is ‘At 39 years old I am the oldest bachelorette because I didn’t settle for men like that’ as a guy leaves the show. Now I never watched Juan Pablo's season so I can't realistically touch on that but did we all just forget about Benoit where they got engaged and broke it off after a few months? And the other 3 shows of the bachelor she was on...maybe a TV relationship isn't in the cards Clare, but who knows, honestly anythings possible with this show....

Other guys are talking about their impression of Clare in the bachelorette and it’s not exactly positive. I think she has forgotten she wants the guys to fall in love with her and get engaged and honestly she’s sort of scaring them and turning them off from her very quickly. Or maybe she shouldn’t have zeroed in on one guy from day one, or before day one maybe. Who knows. I think personally she's just bored from corona and knows her season isn't as good as it would have been. But when does the bachelor ever have a happily ever after, forget about marriage...

When has the engagement at the end of this show ever meant anything? The only Bachelor in this show's previous 24 seasons to marry the final girl he chose is Sean Lowe. Lets stop trying to say this show is about marriage. Never has been, never will be. https://t.co/It9OPAWTJS

— RealitySteve (@RealitySteve) October 6, 2020

Supposedly there is another girl Taysha that comes in later on because Clare leaves with Dale and Taysha finishes the year with some of these guys and some others brought in as well. Maybe I'll wait and watch that portion, Oh and Barstool Sports does a live Twitter as well as an after show stream and they clearly show their bias toward the producers and production with their opinions on empowerment Clare and them loving how guys should stay in line and all that stuff. I wonder how much the Bachelor producers bought them for, for all the positive press and all...I'm assuming at least, because Clare does not look good to the public eye and they are giving her ringing endorsements. 

Get your paycheck I guess, just know that you guys are just like Nick Viall and Ashley Iaconetti now, just saying whatever the producers want you to say; us, the public aren't that stupid. The producers can and do definitely trick us with however they edit their show but we definitely can tell that you guys are just a bunch of yes men. I guess getting interviews and such with Chris Harrison and Mike Fleiss the producers helps to get in their good graces, also the fact that Trent was on the show does help that relationship. Any press is good press, especially all that free press by Barstool.  Whatever, until next time, who knows, I actually don't know if I'll finish watching this or just watch Reality Steves updates...